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Introduction 1
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Lecture1.1
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STEP 1 Spiritual | Identify Your Life Purpose 8
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Lecture2.1
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Lecture2.2
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Lecture2.3
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Lecture2.4
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Lecture2.5
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Lecture2.6
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Lecture2.7
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Lecture2.8
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STEP 2 Mental | Use Your Personal Values Consciously! 8
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Lecture3.1
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Lecture3.2
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Lecture3.3
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Lecture3.4
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Lecture3.5
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Lecture3.6
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Lecture3.7
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Lecture3.8
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STEP 3 Vocational | Find Your Dream Job! 6
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Lecture4.1
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Lecture4.2
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Lecture4.3
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Lecture4.4
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Lecture4.5
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Lecture4.6
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STEP 4 Financial | BUILD AND MANAGE YOUR WEALTH 6
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Lecture5.1
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Lecture5.2
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Lecture5.3
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Lecture5.4
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Lecture5.5
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Lecture5.6
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STEP 5 Social | LOCATE YOUR FRIENDS 6
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Lecture6.1
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Lecture6.2
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Lecture6.3
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Lecture6.4
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Lecture6.5
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Lecture6.6
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STEP 6 Family | APPRECIATE YOUR FAMILY 6
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Lecture7.1
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Lecture7.2
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Lecture7.3
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Lecture7.4
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Lecture7.5
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Lecture7.6
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STEP 7 Physical | DEVELOP YOUR HEALTH RITUALS 5
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Lecture8.1
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Lecture8.2
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Lecture8.3
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Lecture8.4
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Lecture8.5
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Integrating All Steps with Self-Evaluation 3
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Lecture9.1
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Lecture9.2
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Lecture9.3
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Why Do: STEP 6 | Family APPRECIATE YOUR FAMILY
Everyone comes from a family of some form. Many people carry confused perspectives and feelings about their family. This create distractions from being successful and purposeful. You learn here how to understand and appreciate your family’s role in your learning and evolution.
Let’s review quickly your progress towards success so far: Step 1 uncovered your life purpose, Step 2 your values, Step 3 your dream job, Step 4 your wealth, and Step 5 your friends.
Step 6 provides you with the ideas and techniques to help you understand and appreciate your family which is an important part of your road to success.
Step 6 includes:
- A learning tool to uncover the balance within your family
- Sidestep 16 which identifies your supporters and challengers within your family
- Sidestep 17 which enables you to set boundaries within your family
- Sidestep 18 which links your family to your success and life purpose
FIRST – Watch the Family! video:
SECOND – Read below, the key ideas about family:
- Everyone belongs to a family of some form. Since you are listening to me right now, or reading this, your family, whatever its form, helped you survive, and so it worked well for you to belong to your family.
- Families come in an infinite variety of forms and new forms are emerging. For example, blended families are very common today yet, they were rare in the previous generation.
- A family is the most basic and most successful unit of people, the most successful human survival structure, ever created.
- Family members survive by being both supported and challenged equally which optimize their learning and so their survival.
- Everyone alive today has had a successful family experience because they are living proof of its effectiveness.
- Your family, like everyone’s, is ‘perfectly dysfunctional’ or ‘dysfunctionally perfect’ which means it provided a combination of supports and challenges which ensure each person evolves.
- To appreciate how your family’s serves you it is important to understand it is a system of counterbalances or opposites forces which promote learning in its members.
- Most families will have one member who is considered spiritual and another who is not; one who is considered smart and another who is not; one who is financially successful and another who is not; one who has social success and another who does not; one who is close to the family and one who is not; and one who is physically healthy and another who is not.
- Various members, within each family, take on these roles unconsciously, at various times.
- Step 6 is learning to apply these ideas to your family and to raise your appreciation of its role in your past, present and future success.
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Now go to the learning tool to find the balance in your family!